The Other Cheek
“When someone strikes you on your right cheek, turn the other one to him as well.”
Jesus truly has a sense of humor. Over the past week, I’ve had three separate encounters that resulted in, what I’m calling, “unfortunate conversations.” I’m reminded that there are sometimes consequences when you speak the truth, and I’ve gotten a lot of practice turning the other cheek.
Now, I’m not saying that I didn’t have a part in these “unfortunate conversations.” I could have been more thoughtful. I could have been more empathetic. I could have been more accommodating. In one instance, I could have picked up the phone. But - in all scenarios, one thing is becoming clear -
Right now, a lot of people are stressed out.
People are carrying burdens they never carried. They’re coming off months of fear and confusion and anxiety and anger - and, for most of us, it shows a little. A lot of us are nearing the end of our rope. I’ll put my hand up - I’m a little quicker to anger, a little less patient, a little more brash or blunt than usual. And I know I’m not the only one.
Sisters, it’s okay if our reality has taken a toll on you. It’s okay if you’re a little bit not okay. It’s okay if you push a little too hard and have to apologize. I’ve had to eat my share of humble pie this week, and it’s okay. It’s not always easy. It doesn’t always feel just. But, turning the other cheek isn’t meant to be cozy.
Turning the other cheek is about getting humble.
Sisters, I know it’s not easy to turn the other cheek. This week, my fiery phone calls with my mom can attest to that. This is a hard pill for me to swallow, too. It’s humbling - and that’s never easy. So - today, I’m taking some time to unravel my pride and get honest with the Lord. I encourage you to join me.
Today, I’m asking Jesus - is there an area that You are inviting me to turn the other cheek? An area where deeper forgiveness is required? Are You asking me to turn the other cheek for a family member, an organization, a landlord, a business, or a friend? Lord, where do I need to eat my words, and where do I need to apologize for the words I didn’t eat? Either way, Lord, where are You inviting me today?
Father,
Thank You for making us humble. Thank You for offering opportunities to encounter my own weakness and my need for You - a savior, a friend, a confidant, a merciful father.
God, teach us how to turn the other cheek. Teach us when. Teach us how. Teach us when to stand up and when to shut up. Teach us how to apologize well when we fall out of line. And when we do fall out of line, help us to receive Your mercy and to walk without shame.
God, we love You. Help us to become like You. Amen.